Blessed is he who expects no gratitude for he shall not be disappointed.
W.C. Bennett, Trinity Ave Pres. Church, Durham, N.C. in
The Official Rules, p. 12.
The careless soul receives the Father's gifts as if it were a way things had of dropping into his hand...yet he is ever
complaining, as if someone were accountable for the problems which meet him at every turn. For the good that comes to him, he
gives no thanks--who is there to thank? At the disappointments that befall him he grumbles--there must be someone to blame!
Andrew Carnegie, the multimillionaire, left $1 million for one of his relatives, who in return cursed Carnegie thoroughly because
he had left $365 million to public charities and had cut him off with just one measly million.
Samuel Leibowitz, criminal lawyer and judge, saved 78 men from the electric chair. Not one ever did bother to thank him.
Many years ago, as the story is told, a devout king was disturbed by the ingratitude of his royal court. He prepared a large
banquet for them. When the king and his royal guests were seated, by prearrangement, a beggar shuffled into the hall, sat
down at the king's table, and gorged himself with food. Without saying a word, he then left the room. The guests were furious
and asked permission to seize the tramp and tear him limb from limb for his ingratitude.
The king replied, "That beggar has done only once to an earthly king what each of you does three
times each day to God. You sit there at the table and eat until you are satisfied. Then you walk away without recognizing God,
or expressing one word of thanks to Him."
Ingratitude denotes spiritual immaturity. Infants do not always appreciate what parents do for them. They have short memories.
Their concern is not what you did for me yesterday, but what are you doing for me today. The past is meaningless and so is the
future. They live for the present. Those who are mature are deeply appreciative of those who labored in the past. They
recognize those who labor during the present and provide for those who will be laboring in the future.
Contact, Homemade, December 1984.