No man is poor who has had a godly mother.
An ounce of mother is worth a ton of priest.
When Robert Ingersoll, the notorious skeptic, was in his heyday, two college students
went to hear him lecture. As they walked down the street after the lecture, one
said to the
other, Well, I guess he knocked the props out from under Christianity, didnt
The other said, No, I dont think he did. Ingersoll did not explain my mothers
and until he can explain my mothers life I will stand by my mothers God.
James S. Hewett, Illustrations Unlimited,
Tyndale, 1972, p. 381.
Motherhood and Compassion. A few days ago I made a marvelous discovery. In the Hebrew
language of the Old Testament the word for compassion comes from the root word,
womb. The picture is of a birthing. Something new is being born. If I apply
this in a human experience, it means that my compassionate acts always give the other
person another chance. I do not hold past failures against them. I offer a fresh
start. I want this for myself from others. Am I willing to give it to the other
person? Such compassion will dramatically change the way we relate to each other.
Brooks Ramsey, Pastoral Counseling and Consulting Center, Memphis
Parent's Influence. When parents understand the source of joy, when they decide to let
Christ rule in their home, they have chosen the way of joy that will never disappoint
them. Billy Grahams parents were both committed Christians. Although he was a
businessman, his father had at one time felt a desire to preach. The way never seemed
opened for him. After Billy entered the ministry, the father said, I prayed for years
for a way to be opened. But never once was there the slightest encouragement from God. My
heart burned and I wondered why God did not answer my prayer. Now I feel I have the
answer. I believe that my part was to raise a son to be a preacher. Imagine the joy
that thought brought to him and to his wife.
Proclaim, Fathers Day Sermon: Joy in the Home, June 18,
Ilion Jones writes that "On the great biographer Ida M. Tarbell's 80th birthday,
someone asked her to name the greatest persons she had ever met. She responded, 'The
greatest persons I have ever met are those nobody knows anything about.'
"Once the New York Times was asked to help a group of club women decide on the
twelve greatest women in the United States. After due consideration, the editors replied,
'The twelve greatest women in the United States are women who have never been heard of
outside of their own homes.'"
Jones concludes, "I ask you, who was greater, Thomas A. Edison or his mother? When
he was a young lad his teacher sent him home with a note which said, 'Your child is dumb.
We can't do anything for him.' Mrs. Edison wrote back, 'You do not understand my boy. I
will teach him myself'. And she did, with results that are well known.
Morning Glory, January 8, 1994.
Over one hundred years ago, G.K. Chesterton asked: "Can anyone tell me two things
more vital to the race than these; what man shall marry what woman, and what shall be the
first things taught to their first child?" Chesterton goes on to comment that:
"the daily operations surrounded her with very young children, who needed to be
taught not so much anything but everything. Babies need not to be taught a trade, but to
be introduced to a world. To put the matter shortly, a woman is generally shut up in a
house with a human being at the time when he asks all the questions that there are, and
some that there aren't...Our race has thought it worth while to cast this burden on women
in order to keep common-sense in the world....But when people begin to talk about
this domestic duty as not merely difficult but trivial and dreary, I simply give up the
question. For I cannot with the utmost energy of imagination conceive what they mean....If
drudgery only means dreadfully hard work, I admit the woman drudges in the home, as a man
might drudge (at his work)....But if it means that the hard work is more heavy because it
is trifling, colorless, and of small import to the soul, then I say give it up...."
How can it be an (important) career to tell other people's children about
and a small career to tell one's own children about the universe?...A woman's function is
laborious...not because it is minute, but because it is gigantic. I will pity Mrs. Jones
for the hugeness of her task; I will never pity her for its smallness.
Steve Farrar, Family Survival in the American
Press, 1991, pp.113-114.
Years ago, a young mother was making her way across the hills of South Wales,
her tiny baby in her arms, when she was overtaken by a blinding blizzard. She never reached
her destination and when the blizzard had subsided her body was found by searchers beneath
a mound of snow. But they discovered that before her death, she had taken off all her outer
clothing and wrapped it about her baby. When they unwrapped the child, to their great
surprise and joy, they found he was alive and well. She had mounded her body over his and
given her life for her child, proving the depths of her mother love. Years later that
child, David Lloyd George, grown to manhood, became prime minister of Great Britain, and,
without doubt, one of Englands greatest statesman.
James S. Hewett, Illustrations Unlimited,
Tyndale, 1972, p. 375.
Dr. G. Campbell Morgan had 4 sons and they were all preachers. Someone once came into
the drawing room when all the family was there. They thought they would see what Howard,
one of the sons, was made of so they asked him this question: "Howard, who is the
greatest preacher in your family?" Howard had a great admiration for his father and
he looked straight across at him and then without a moments hesitation he answered,
A. Edersheim, Sketches of Jewish Social Life,
I cannot tell how much I owe to the prayers of my good mother. I remember her once
praying, "Now Lord, if my children go on in sin it will not be from ignorance that
they perish, and my soul must bear swift witness against them at the day of judgment if
they lay not hold on Christ and claim Him as their personal Savior."
Grandma, on a winter's day, milked the cows and fed them hay, hitched the mule, drove
kids to school...did a washing, mopped the floors, washed the windows and did some
chores...Cooked a dish of home-dried fruit, pressed her husband's Sunday suit...swept the
parlor, made the bed, baked a dozen loaves of bread...split some firewood and lugged it
in, enough to fill the kitchen bin...Cleaned the lamps and put in oil, stewed some apples
before they spoiled...churned the butter, baked a cake, then exclaimed, "For goodness
sake!" when the calves ran from the pen, and chased them all back in again...Gathered
eggs and locked the stable, back to the house and set the table...cooked a supper that was
delicious, then washed and dried all dirty dishes...fed the cat and sprinkled clothes,
mended a basketful of hose...then opened the organ and began to play: "When You Come to the End of a Perfect Day..."
Reminisce, premiere issue, 1991, pp. 46-7.
A teacher gave her class of second graders a lesson on the magnet and what it does. The
next day in a written test, she included this question: " My full name has six
letters. The first one is M. I pick up things. What am I?" When the test papers were
turned in, the teacher was astonished to find that almost 50 percent of the students
answered the question with the word Mother.
Our minister's wife told of filling out a form in her pediatrician's office. Beside the
blank marked "occupation" were these words: "If you devote the greater part
of your time to loving, caring and making a home for your family, put a big star in this
Legally, a husband is the head of the house and a pedestrian has the right of way. Both
are perfectly safe and within their rights as long as they do not try to confirm it!
George E. Bergman.
Lorne Sanny of The Navigators once wrote of his mother: "My mother gave birth to
me in a frontier house on a Midwestern prairie. On the kitchen counter she placed a list of
the ingredients necessary for my formula. At the top of the list was 'prayer,' and that
remained at the top of her list for me throughout her life...I have her to thank for
firmly establishing my spiritual roots."
Today in the Word, January, 1990, p. 23.
A teacher asked a boy this question: "Suppose your mother baked a pie and there
were seven of you--your parents and five children. What part of the pie would you
get?" "A sixth," replied the boy. "I'm afraid you don't know your
fractions," said the teacher. "Remember, there are seven of you."
"Yes, teacher," said the boy, "but you don't know my mother. Mother would
say she didn't want any pie."
Bits and Pieces, June, 1990, p. 10.
A little boy forgot his lines in a Sunday school presentation. His mother was in the
front row to prompt him. She gestured and formed the words silently with her lips, but it
did not help. Her son's memory was blank. Finally, she leaned forward and whispered the
cue, "I am the light of the world." The child beamed and with great feeling and
a loud clear voice said, "My mother is the light of the world."
Bits and Pieces, August, 1989.
It is in the home that we first develop our sense of who we are. Every child has aright
to a secure, happy home life. Every child has a right to the love and nurture of his or her
Akin to identity is the question of self-worth. Dr. James Dobson, author of
several excellent books on raising children cautions us that, A child can learn to
doubt his worth at home even when he is deeply loved by his parents! Destructive ideas
find their way into his thinking process, leading him to conclude that he is ugly
or incredibly stupid or that he has already proved himself to be a hopeless failure
The famous Psychiatrist Dr. Alfred Adler had an experience when a young boy which
illustrates just how powerful such a belief can be upon behavior and ability. He
got off to
a bad start in arithmetic and his teacher became convinced that he was dumb
mathematics. The teacher then advised the parents of this fact and told
them not to expect too much of him. They too were convinced. Alder passively accepted
the evaluation they had placed upon him. And his grades in arithmetic proved they
correct. One day, however, he had a sudden flash of insight and thought he saw
how to work
a problem the teacher had put on the board, and which none of the other pupils could work.
He announced as much to the teacher. She and the whole class laughed. Whereupon, he became
indignant, strode to the blackboard, and worked the problem much to their amazement. In
doing so, he realized that he could understand arithmetic. He felt a new confidence in his
ability, and went on to become a good math student.
We need to encourage our children. We need not only to surround them with love but
we need to help them feel competent as persons.
I wish every one of us had inscribed on the walls of our home the words of
Noltes work, Children Learn What They Live, and then kept this
constantly before us in our daily activities.
If a child lives with criticism,
He learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,
He learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule,
He learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame,
He learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance,
He learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement,
He learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise,
He learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness,
He learns justice.
If a child lives with security,
He learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval,
He learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,
He learns to find love in the world.
A sermon called The Divine Family, author unknown.
Susannah Wesley's Rules For Raising Children:
1. Subdue self-will in a child and thus work together with God to save his soul.
2. Teach him to pray as soon as he can speak.
3. Give him nothing he cries for and only what is good for him if he asks for it politely.
4. To prevent lying, punish no fault which is freely confessed, but never allow a
rebellious, sinful act to go unnoticed.
5. Commend and reward good behavior.
6. Strictly observe all promises you have make to your child.
The love of a mother is never exhausted. It never changes--it never tires--it endures
through all; in good repute, in bad repute, in the face of the world's condemnation, a
mother's love still lives on.
The most creative job in the world involves fashion, decorating, recreation, education,
transportation, psychology, romance, cuisine, literature, art, economics, government,
pediatrics, geriatrics, entertainment, maintenance, purchasing, law, religion, energy and
management. Anyone who can handle all those has to be somebody special. She's a homemaker.
Richard Kerr quoted in Homemade, February 1989.
Women who never have children enjoy the equivalent of an extra three months a year in
leisure time, says Susan Lang, author of Women Without Children. If that figure seems
high, remember that the average mother spends 3.5 more hours a week doing housework than
would a woman without children, plus 11 hours a week on child-related activities. This
adds up to an additional 754 hours of work every year--the equivalent of three months of
12-hour, 5-day work weeks.
Signs of the Times, May, 1992, p. 6.
Bob Greene (in the Detroit Free Press) cited a study by attorney Michael Minton on the
monetary value of a wife's services in the home. First he listed the various functions she
performs: chauffeur, gardener, family counselor, maintenance worker, cleaning woman,
housekeeper, cook, errand runner, bookkeeper/budget manager, interior decorator, caterer,
dietitian, secretary, public relations person, hostess. Using this impressive list of
household duties, Minton figured the dollar value of a housewife's work in today's (1981)
labor market. He came up with the amount of $785.07 a week. That's $40,823.64 a year!
Bob Greene, Detroit Free Press.
Eight common challenges faced by mothers of young children: 1) Low self-esteem, 2)
Monotony and loneliness, 3) Stress from too many demands 4) Lack of time with husband, 5)
Confusion about discipline, 6) Home atmosphere, 7) Need for outside role models, 8)
Training of children.
Susan A. Yates, And Then I Had Children, Wolgemuth &
Percentage of mothers of infants (children less than 1 year old) who are employed or
looking for work: 51. U.S. Census Bureau Current Population Survey.
American Demographics, December 1988.
A four-year-old and a six-year-old presented their Mom with a house plant. They
had used their own money and she was thrilled. The older of them said with a sad
face, "There was a bouquet that we wanted to give you at the flower shop. It was
real pretty, but it was too expensive. It had a ribbon on it that said, 'Rest In
we thought it would be just perfect since you are always asking for a little
peace so that
you can rest."
The mother of three notoriously unruly youngsters was asked whether or not she'd have
children if she had it to do over again. "Yes," she replied. "But not the
David Finkelstein, Reader's Digest.
Had I Been Joseph's Mother
Had I been Joseph's mother
I'd have prayed
protection from his brothers
"God, keep him safe.
He is so young,
so different from
she never knew
there would be slavery
and prison, too.
Had I been Moses' mother
I'd have wept to keep my little son:
praying she might forget
the babe drawn from the water
of the Nile.
Had I not kept
him for her
nursing him the while,
was he not mine?
but Pharaoh's daughter?
Had I been Daniel's mother
I should have pled
--this Babylonian horde
godless and cruel--
Don't let him be a captive
Had I been Mary,
Oh, had I been she,
I would have cried
as never mother cried,
"Anything, O God,
With such prayers importunate
my finite wisdom would assail
God, how fortunate
Ruth Bell Graham, Prodigals and Those Who Love Them, 1991, Focus
on the Family Publishing, p. 69.
A Mother's Influence
I took a piece of plastic clay
And idly fashioned it one day;
And as my fingers pressed it still
It moved and yielded at my will.
I came again when days were past,
The form I gave it still it bore,
And as my fingers pressed it still,
I could change that form no more.
I took a piece of living clay,
And gently formed it day by day,
And molded with my power and art,
A young child's soft and yielding heart.
I came again when days were gone;
It was a man I looked upon,
He still that early impress bore,
And I could change it never more.